When it comes to the art of seducing women, I get my inspiration from the strangest places! I am currently reading a brilliant novel called Matterhorn by Karl Marlantes. It is about the struggles of a young lieutenant in Vietnam. It is a brilliant read and I would recommend it to anyone interested in the Vietnam, war, politics or even human relations.
Advice for Men on Seducing Women
In one poignant scene the lieutenant is in the middle of a battle. He’s thinking back over his brief encounters with women and he recounts one scene at a party where he was set up with a girl. He spent the night alone with her on the sofa not knowing what to do, feeling very awkward as the night drew to a fruitless close.
We have all been there (I certainly have) – feeling impotent because we can’t seduce her or even make the situation as sexual as we want.
I have decided to direct some advice towards Lt Mellas, and anyone else who is talking one-on-one with a girl and wants to make things sexual. There are two key areas I want you to focus on. This article will look at shifting the conversation into a sexual topic. Part 2 will explain seducing women by escalate physically.
To build sexual attraction it helps to turn the conversation to a sexual topic. Seducing women is often a matter of getting her to start thinking about sex- as she is talking to you there is a good chance she will start thinking about sex with you. I’ve come up with three ideas. For each, I’ll explain how to initiate the sexual topic and how to keep the conversation going and increase the intensity of the sexual tone
Idea 1 – Teachers
Initiate: Ask her whether she fancied any teachers at school.
Development: Tease her about how she likes authority figures; ask her why she fancied the teacher; bring the conversation onto why people are attracted to their teachers; say you never fancied your teacher but if she had been your teacher it may have been different.
Idea 2 – Friends
Initiate: Talk about how one of your friends who isn’t sure whether she is a lesbian or not.
Development: Ask her whether people can be sure about their sexuality; ask her if she has ever been tempted by a girl; ask her what she thinks about guys kissing; ask her whether she has ever thought about a girl in that way.
Idea 3 – Kissing
Initiate: Talk about how a friend has a theory that you can tell if someone is a good kisser or not just by looking at them.
Development: Ask her whether she agrees with this; pick out some people around you (if you are out) and talk about whether they are good kissers or not; discuss what the criteria might be to decide what a good kisser is; talk about what sort of kissing they like / you like; you can really tease her by saying you’re not sure whether she would be a good kisser; ask her how good a kisser she thinks you are (you should go down this route if you feel it is going well).
By this stage you should be well on your way to seducing her. And now check out Part 2 for advice on seducing women by moving things forward physically.