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Approach Women on Holiday
Too often, guys obsess over the best ways to approach women. They’d often be better off working out WHICH women to approach in the first place.
This article is relevant for any city, but is of particular relevance for guys living in London. Tourists represent a great opportunity to have exciting interactions with women. London is full of tourists from all over the world, from Poland to Paraguay. For the purposes of this article, let’s define tourists as anyone who is visiting London on a non permanent basis. This includes students, travellers, holiday makers or part-time workers.
This huge group of people is in London looking for excitement and adventure. If you can offer them this then they will be putty in your hands. It works both ways because tourists can give an insight into a different culture, have more time and be more open to new things. It can be great fun to hang around with girls from different countries for a while.
Where To Find Them
There are a couple of key places. Your main port of call should be Central London: Piccadilly Circus, Leicester Square and particularly Covent Garden. This can be effective during the day and in the numerous clubs and bars in the evening.
The second option is universities. There are a number of universities in London that support themselves financially on the fees of foreign students and the campuses and coffee shops are full of beautiful foreign girls.
What To Say
This isn’t greatly different to any of the standard ways to approach women. However, pay particular attention to taking an interest in them and where they are from. In many cases, English is their second language which means that subtle humour or clever and ironic conversations / jokes / texts are unnecessary. Be friendly. Make them feel comfortable. Invite them to something cool.
Whether you are direct (telling her you think she is beautiful) or indirect (just starting a conversation) you must be clear in your communications. Lead and tell them what you are doing. Keep the first meeting somewhere public and perhaps as a group so that they can bring a friend.
What To Do
Whether this is a cool bar, coffee shop, gig, party or shisha cafe you are the expert on the city and should be able to shop them something new and interesting. If you were in another city and someone was showing you around you would expect to see some interesting stuff that would have otherwise been out of reach.
